We're taking a look at the little things that make a big difference for work-at-home success. Yesterday I introduced you to Revka, the owner of http://berriesandcreamblogdesign.com/. (That's her in the picture!)
Not only did she start being honest about the fact that she works from home, she also asked her husband if they could discuss her business and their individual views and goals for it. She shared, "It was quite an eye-opening discussion--sometimes painful but quite helpful. At last, we are on the same page and have agreed to a particular set of goals and boundaries for my business."
According to Revka, the discussion has positively impacted her marriage. She notes, "With guidelines in place, I know where the boundaries are and what is acceptable to him in terms of fulfilling home responsibilities and business obligations. When I cross those boundaries, he is now able to remind me where the boundary is. This has reduced feelings of resentment, frustration, and anger on both our parts."
I found the same to be true in my own marriage. Resentment had been building for a long time. When I finally approached my husband for an open discussion about my desire to work and the balance it takes to make it happen, we were able to agree on a system that works for us. But I waited too long to have the discussion and wish I had done it sooner.
Honest communication is essential to work-at-home success. Do you need to schedule a conversation with your significant other? If so, don't delay!
We'll cover the last of Revka's changes tomorrow. Stay tuned!
No More Work-at-Home Insanity,
Little Things Make a Big Difference, Part 2
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Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Labels: honesty, management, priorities
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